I'll have to post a short version since I'm at work. And not sure if I'm breaking the rules but this is my 2nd thread yet it is asking a more specific question on the same topic. Sorry in advance if so.
My wife is just not that into me. She has never really been intimate, thats just not her thing. Even with previous boyfriends it been the same.
She has recently said things to me like "we dont have that natural chemistry" She told my mother that famous saying "ILYBINILWU". All in all Im not happy and I've been letting this tear away at me slowly over the years. I told her I was going to leave if things did not change (We have two children 5 and 7)
She has not repsonded the way I wanted her to with the threat of actuyally ending this. In fact its kind of back fired. She is not cheating. I have one last number to check but I'm telling you she hides nothing from me. She's just not that into sex and has always done it with me for me and not her. She does not orgasm nor try nor has ever tried. She is uncomfortable kissing and has been since. We are going to councsling Wednesday but in the meantime I have had a VERY hard time coming to grips with all this rejection. Hurts really bad. I read up on the 180 and wanted to ask the community if this is a good thing for me. We currently live together and sleep together. She is trying to ast as if everything is fine yet I cant shake the things she has told me ......like sex being uncomfortable witrh me. Anyways, This 180 read has been the best thing for my brain in a week.. Got back in the gym today, went ad bought some supliments to start really getting back into shape . ( Im in pretty good shape already)
I will be happy to provide more details but must go now.
My wife is just not that into me. She has never really been intimate, thats just not her thing. Even with previous boyfriends it been the same.
She has recently said things to me like "we dont have that natural chemistry" She told my mother that famous saying "ILYBINILWU". All in all Im not happy and I've been letting this tear away at me slowly over the years. I told her I was going to leave if things did not change (We have two children 5 and 7)
She has not repsonded the way I wanted her to with the threat of actuyally ending this. In fact its kind of back fired. She is not cheating. I have one last number to check but I'm telling you she hides nothing from me. She's just not that into sex and has always done it with me for me and not her. She does not orgasm nor try nor has ever tried. She is uncomfortable kissing and has been since. We are going to councsling Wednesday but in the meantime I have had a VERY hard time coming to grips with all this rejection. Hurts really bad. I read up on the 180 and wanted to ask the community if this is a good thing for me. We currently live together and sleep together. She is trying to ast as if everything is fine yet I cant shake the things she has told me ......like sex being uncomfortable witrh me. Anyways, This 180 read has been the best thing for my brain in a week.. Got back in the gym today, went ad bought some supliments to start really getting back into shape . ( Im in pretty good shape already)
I will be happy to provide more details but must go now.
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