Good evening all, I am a new member who only recently was told by my wife that she "is done" and wants out. We have been married for 23 years. She had been divorced with a son and together we had a daughter. Both children have left the house to start their lives.She left last week and moved into a girl friends apartment. We met this evening to talk. I told her I still loved her and wanted to do counseling. She reluctantly agreed but said she had no illusions it would help. I told her that I didn't want to talk about our issues tonite because I didn't think we could ever untangle the knot of resentment, hurt, anger and defensiveness that seems to have consumed our relationship. Although I did not want to talk about our issues, she apparently did. She told me how for the past three years she had dedicated herself to make me happy. She said she tried everything to get me interested but never received any attention. My side of the story is that she was always busy, not feeling well, tired or otherwise unavailable. It was like we had been living on different planets for the last three years. I don't know what to think.
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