Hello,
In new to the site.
Little background. I've been with my partner 7 years, married 3.5, and hVe a lovely 2 year old daughter.
My husband has always been a flirt, and before we got married had several mishaps, with texting other women, being on dating sites, and on one occassion before we married, he got drunk and slept with another women.
I decided to forgive him, as I love him and he told me he just liked the attention and had never planned to take it any further, some guidelines we're put in place, so it wouldn't happen.
However, it's never been the case where I haven't gone 5 months without other odd things happening, he's had several girls add him on snap chat? Which I thought as wierd, but he told me he didn't know them, he's had girls on what's app, installed apps with secret facilities etc etc.
So recently I have received a email from a girl on Facebook, saying she found my husband on a dating site, and he added her on snapchat, where they would talk. She said it wasn't anything to far, bit of flirting, and fun... But when she found he was married believed what he was doing was wrong... YOU think???!!!
So I've asked him and he denied it, Untill I showed him proof, he's tried to fob it off, with saying he's never cheat, he just likes the attention etc, but it's several women?
I just don't know what to do, where I do believe he wouldn't cheat on me physically, it's still emotional cheating and I cry my eyes out think if I'm not good enough. It's about the 7th time the same things happened, just on a different social network, I've told him I think we should separate, and he cried saying I'm the only one he wants etc, and to be truthful, I don't want to leave him, I don't want to be a single mum and have to move home and start again. I love him, and wish I was enough.
I wonder if he's got me brain washed as I don't know what to do, id I should forgive and forget and be back in this situation again in 5 months. I feel lost and broken, I never though when I got married if ever consider divorce? I have no one to talk to and need a friend and advice, I can't tell any of my friends or family, as is hate them to think negative of him :(
So please I'm looking for some help, advice? Others who have been in my situation??
Thanks
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In new to the site.
Little background. I've been with my partner 7 years, married 3.5, and hVe a lovely 2 year old daughter.
My husband has always been a flirt, and before we got married had several mishaps, with texting other women, being on dating sites, and on one occassion before we married, he got drunk and slept with another women.
I decided to forgive him, as I love him and he told me he just liked the attention and had never planned to take it any further, some guidelines we're put in place, so it wouldn't happen.
However, it's never been the case where I haven't gone 5 months without other odd things happening, he's had several girls add him on snap chat? Which I thought as wierd, but he told me he didn't know them, he's had girls on what's app, installed apps with secret facilities etc etc.
So recently I have received a email from a girl on Facebook, saying she found my husband on a dating site, and he added her on snapchat, where they would talk. She said it wasn't anything to far, bit of flirting, and fun... But when she found he was married believed what he was doing was wrong... YOU think???!!!
So I've asked him and he denied it, Untill I showed him proof, he's tried to fob it off, with saying he's never cheat, he just likes the attention etc, but it's several women?
I just don't know what to do, where I do believe he wouldn't cheat on me physically, it's still emotional cheating and I cry my eyes out think if I'm not good enough. It's about the 7th time the same things happened, just on a different social network, I've told him I think we should separate, and he cried saying I'm the only one he wants etc, and to be truthful, I don't want to leave him, I don't want to be a single mum and have to move home and start again. I love him, and wish I was enough.
I wonder if he's got me brain washed as I don't know what to do, id I should forgive and forget and be back in this situation again in 5 months. I feel lost and broken, I never though when I got married if ever consider divorce? I have no one to talk to and need a friend and advice, I can't tell any of my friends or family, as is hate them to think negative of him :(
So please I'm looking for some help, advice? Others who have been in my situation??
Thanks
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