I'll try not to be too wordy.
Married for over 10 years. Sex is...not great. My wife and I really do not have alone time very often. As you can guess, a HD/LD situation.
But even when we do, it's OK but not really that good. This might be a little TMI, sorry.
Our encounters, as infrequent as they are, are pretty much like this:
1. She gives the go ahead.
2. I may stimulate her with my hand (rarely mouth) but she typically asks for a toy pretty quick. She just likes the small toys that vibrate her clit (can I say that?). She gets off 4 times or more. That part is great.
2a. I love to go down on her. Just never lasts long. Not comfortable or my facial hair rubs/pokes her.
3. Sometimes she'll do oral on me. Maybe 25% of the time.
4. Then she just wants to be bent over (doggie). Nothing else.
5. That's it.
She's always been like that. We've tried other positions and without going into serious TMI, nothing else works. She's too uncomfortable, it's too painful, or the worst. She can't feel it. :( Now, I'm not carrying a knee knocker but I'm OK down there. Have had 4 or 5 other partners and have done it all kinds of ways. Never had an issue.
Honestly, I think our bodies just don't "fit together" quite right. maybe it's my body's fault. Not trying to cast blame. But she has a short build (petite?) but she's a tiny bit on the heavy side :o. And her legs don't really spread that wide, if that makes sense. She knows this.
The other girls/women I've been with in the past were all smaller (as in skinny). That's the only thing I can think of that's different. I'm around the same size/weight I've been for ~20 years or so.
So, I'm not sure why I'm posting. Maybe for suggestions. Maybe just to vent (not rant).
I know the frequency of our sessions won't change anytime soon but I sure wish the quality would.
Any thoughts?
Married for over 10 years. Sex is...not great. My wife and I really do not have alone time very often. As you can guess, a HD/LD situation.
But even when we do, it's OK but not really that good. This might be a little TMI, sorry.
Our encounters, as infrequent as they are, are pretty much like this:
1. She gives the go ahead.
2. I may stimulate her with my hand (rarely mouth) but she typically asks for a toy pretty quick. She just likes the small toys that vibrate her clit (can I say that?). She gets off 4 times or more. That part is great.
2a. I love to go down on her. Just never lasts long. Not comfortable or my facial hair rubs/pokes her.
3. Sometimes she'll do oral on me. Maybe 25% of the time.
4. Then she just wants to be bent over (doggie). Nothing else.
5. That's it.
She's always been like that. We've tried other positions and without going into serious TMI, nothing else works. She's too uncomfortable, it's too painful, or the worst. She can't feel it. :( Now, I'm not carrying a knee knocker but I'm OK down there. Have had 4 or 5 other partners and have done it all kinds of ways. Never had an issue.
Honestly, I think our bodies just don't "fit together" quite right. maybe it's my body's fault. Not trying to cast blame. But she has a short build (petite?) but she's a tiny bit on the heavy side :o. And her legs don't really spread that wide, if that makes sense. She knows this.
The other girls/women I've been with in the past were all smaller (as in skinny). That's the only thing I can think of that's different. I'm around the same size/weight I've been for ~20 years or so.
So, I'm not sure why I'm posting. Maybe for suggestions. Maybe just to vent (not rant).
I know the frequency of our sessions won't change anytime soon but I sure wish the quality would.
Any thoughts?
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