Anyone else get this one? I basically put my feelings out there to this girl who is (probably was now) one of my closest friends who I could trust with just about anything except I was too scared to put my feelings out there due to fear of rejection, but the other night the urge to tell her just came over me and I did it.
Anyway, she basically said "I really like you but I just don't see you like that - plus I've got a boyfriend sorry" then went on to say "I'm sorry you're a great guy and deserve the best". Thankfully we're going to remain friends (or so she says) because whether I can be with her or not I'd hate to lose her as a friend.
Well, if that was the case and I am such a great guy (her own words) what makes me not great for you? To me, the best would be you and I can't really make myself feel any different. I wouldn't dare make a move on someone I knew had a boyfriend and she seems happy with him - I'm happy that she's happy but at the same time I'd quite like to be happy too.
I'm not going to spend the rest of my life waiting for her to become single again but if she does would it be worth making another move? I do believe that she might not feel that way right now but if she was single I think she'd have at least given me a chance, the rejection didn't exactly seem like a flat out never, more of a 'not now'. I mean, she could've just rejected me without saying she had a boyfriend given I didn't know - I appreciated the honesty at the very least. Also, what's to say she'll feel like that forever?
This was quite a blow because she means the world to me (and thought she was available) + I'm still trying to come to terms with it, so apologies if the above is complete nonsense and if I'm just being bitter please tell me. Advice appreciated!
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