My wife cheated on me 4 months ago and I've been trying to get over with. The man she slept with was actually a co-worker of mine who i trusted and invited into my home. I worked at this job for 4 years and she said they were sleeping together for 2 years. Because of this, I've switched shifts so I can avoid seeing him. I've been trying to work on my marriage and fix all the issues that drove her to cheating in the first place. It seems like things have been going good until a couple weeks ago when I asked her how he was in bed. She didn't want to tell me but I kept asking her about it. She finally told me and it crushed me. She told me how they had sex on chairs and against the wall. What's even worse, she told me how large his penis is. She got kind of caught up describing how good it was but she stopped when she realized how it was affecting me. I don't even know why I asked her because from everything she told me, he is much better in bed than me. She said that he's at least 8 inches and she told me that she enjoyed it even though she's in love with me. Heis much larger than me and it really hurt to hear this.
Now when we have sex, I can't help but to think about what they did. I've tried to mimic some of the things they did but it's just too tough for me. Sex seems fake now because she moans and groans like she is enjoying it but I actually feel like I'm not good enough since I know she is used to being with him and he is much larger. These thoughts have led me to become impotent in the bedroom because I can't help but to feel ashamed, useless, and inadequate. I need help to overcome these feelings. She says that she understands but I feel that if I am unable to satisfy her, she may end up cheating again and I will end up right where I started. What can I do to save this marriage, satisfy her sexually, and to gain confidence that I can satisfy her in the bedroom?
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Now when we have sex, I can't help but to think about what they did. I've tried to mimic some of the things they did but it's just too tough for me. Sex seems fake now because she moans and groans like she is enjoying it but I actually feel like I'm not good enough since I know she is used to being with him and he is much larger. These thoughts have led me to become impotent in the bedroom because I can't help but to feel ashamed, useless, and inadequate. I need help to overcome these feelings. She says that she understands but I feel that if I am unable to satisfy her, she may end up cheating again and I will end up right where I started. What can I do to save this marriage, satisfy her sexually, and to gain confidence that I can satisfy her in the bedroom?
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