We are having some remodeling done in our house. I walked in with my sister the other day to find a bottle of women's body spray in the kitchen. Raised both of our eyebrows. When my husband returned home, I noticed he did a quick double-take when he saw the bottle but said nothing. So my sister casually asked "what's that spray?" He said he noticed it but thought it was one of ours or thought one of the contractors found it and placed it there.
It's not mine or my sister's, it's a fairly new and very clean bottle, and no contractors have had access to the house without me or my husband there. What would you think?
Background: I believe he had an affair a couple of years ago. Never got definitive proof, but very strong circumstantial evidence. When confronted about that and later about his inappropriate flirting with another woman some time later, he went ballistic. Yelling, calling me crazy, denying everything, refusing to admit anything even with the evidence I had. Now even if I mention anything remotely to do with another woman, "so what did you and Jane talk about at the party?", he gets angry. He says I am accusing him of cheating again and completely blows up.
I don't know how to bring the bottle up without causing a major riff. Because if it didn't come in the house through me, it had to come in through him, right?
It's not mine or my sister's, it's a fairly new and very clean bottle, and no contractors have had access to the house without me or my husband there. What would you think?
Background: I believe he had an affair a couple of years ago. Never got definitive proof, but very strong circumstantial evidence. When confronted about that and later about his inappropriate flirting with another woman some time later, he went ballistic. Yelling, calling me crazy, denying everything, refusing to admit anything even with the evidence I had. Now even if I mention anything remotely to do with another woman, "so what did you and Jane talk about at the party?", he gets angry. He says I am accusing him of cheating again and completely blows up.
I don't know how to bring the bottle up without causing a major riff. Because if it didn't come in the house through me, it had to come in through him, right?
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