So Ive read thru many posts and my issues are much like everyone elses. Im at my wits end and ready to walk but Im really trying to not give up so easy. However things that have been said and done have me questioning her commitment to this marriage. Here are some examples:
My father past last yr and I went through it completely alone. To add insult to injury she told me to get over his death (this was 3 weeks after he past). She told me also my dad wouldn't be proud of me because I didn't graduate college (I graduate in august).
She has begin an investment group with FREINDS even though I told her we should look into investing long before that-she puts away $500 a month but will claim broke. I also said I wanted to play the stock market so she went ahead and did that on her own and didnt tell me until I found out accidentally.
I get constantly nagged about the absolute smallest detail- and by small I mean literally 1 unwashed cup in the sink. Wont do me any favors at all but she asks me to do stuff for her all the time and I willingly do it. I can ask her to bring me a beer from the liquor store that is on the way home- I'll put the money in her account (all $9 of it) and she will still say no.
She throws her education in my face but she has NEVER made more money than me.
The main thing however is sex. We have sex on average maybe every 6-7 weeks and even then its mechanical or I initiate it. In the past year in a half we may have had sex 12-14 times and its probably less than that. We went a 4 month stretch of nothing.
So Im here to get advice I guess- I have a 4 year old involved and I dont want another man raising her. I want things to work but she seems not to care? I've talked to her, written letters, gone to counseling and nothing seems to work? Any ideas
My father past last yr and I went through it completely alone. To add insult to injury she told me to get over his death (this was 3 weeks after he past). She told me also my dad wouldn't be proud of me because I didn't graduate college (I graduate in august).
She has begin an investment group with FREINDS even though I told her we should look into investing long before that-she puts away $500 a month but will claim broke. I also said I wanted to play the stock market so she went ahead and did that on her own and didnt tell me until I found out accidentally.
I get constantly nagged about the absolute smallest detail- and by small I mean literally 1 unwashed cup in the sink. Wont do me any favors at all but she asks me to do stuff for her all the time and I willingly do it. I can ask her to bring me a beer from the liquor store that is on the way home- I'll put the money in her account (all $9 of it) and she will still say no.
She throws her education in my face but she has NEVER made more money than me.
The main thing however is sex. We have sex on average maybe every 6-7 weeks and even then its mechanical or I initiate it. In the past year in a half we may have had sex 12-14 times and its probably less than that. We went a 4 month stretch of nothing.
So Im here to get advice I guess- I have a 4 year old involved and I dont want another man raising her. I want things to work but she seems not to care? I've talked to her, written letters, gone to counseling and nothing seems to work? Any ideas
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