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Hi, I'm a 19 year old female who got married last year. My partner is really intent on having kids as he is 9 years older than me so he feels ready. I, on the other hand, really do not want to have a baby. I'm currently in uni and I want to finish and start working etc before thinking about a family.
I've tried explaining this but it's just not getting through to him! Knowing the kind of guy he is, I know he won't change his mind on it.
Recently, he's been trying to force me to go the gp to see a doctor about why I've not gotten pregnant after him thinking we've been trying for quite a few months. He doesn't know anything about the fertile window and the fact that I've been avoiding sex on these days to avoid pregnancy (I know this is irresponsible. I have been secretly taking the pill though, it's just that it's run out and my gp is so far from my current house so I don't have time to go). I'm worried if I go to the gp, the doctor will explain these things to him so he'll know why I've not gotten pregnant. I'm also worried that the doctor may mention me coming in to ask for the pill and the morning after pill as it's on my record.
Is there a way I can just see the doctor alone? Is there any way I could call in before the appointment and request they ask my partner to wait outside? :S
I really don't want to leave him as he's such a great person otherwise. He treats me so well so I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to keep lying or being pressured to do something as big as having a child.. :confused:
Thank you for any responses.
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