Hey TSR!
I've just got into a new relationship (we've been together for 7 weeks or so). Me and her are very much (from my perspective) into one and other. We had spent a long time together during this phase, since she had to go back home for summer (from uni), we both wanted to make it memorable. We would mostly lie in bed till late afternoon, talk about our lives, our folks back home and have sex (rather frequently).
Now this may seem irrelevant, but she is a bisexual, which of course, doesn't necessarily change the way I feel, and the connection we have built. But I can't help but feel jealous whenever I see her liking a girls status or post on Facebook, or when I know she is talking to one of her friends. I do trust her too a point (although she has a past, I am not judging her), but it does run through my mind that perhaps sometimes I take a back seat.
For instance, because we are in a LDR it is hard to really get the balance right, between too much chatter on Facebook or texting. However, it seems whenever I try I get a very sort of standard response. However, whenever I leave it for a time, she will text me, telling me she loves me, and misses me, and longs for my body next to hers etc etc.
Yet the next day for instance (hypothetically) we would be back to this sort of platonic stage.
What I am saying is, why is it that someone only loves you dependent on situations. Like if i don't text she is preoccupied with me. Yet when she is (evidently) talking to a friend on Facebook or clearly doing something else its sort of like I go back to being in the background??
We both really like each other, its just I am a little bit paranoid that she is losing we have. Perhaps in the daily grind of her busy life. Perhaps she has a lot on, or just isn't as interested as I am her. I know when she was here we texted almost constantly.
Do you guys think im over thinking this? I know I come across as insecure or clingy but in all honesty, in LDR's you truly don't know what the other is up to or even how they feel about you. I guess I have issues with abandonment and trust.
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