Hi all. I come today to post this with a heavy heart. I am currently 9 weeks pregnant and have been with my husband for a year and a half. Since the beginning of my marriage I have struggled with my husband's addiction to porn, dating sites, facebook chats, etc. We went through a bad point in the fall where I threatened to leave him if he did not change. He stayed off everything for a while and our marriage was slowly becoming happy and healthy again. I am not one to easily walk away from a marriage and will give everything to make it work. Besides this, I catch him in small lies and he's financially irresponsible. Otherwise, he is a loving, doting, caring husband. He provides for me, takes care of me when I'm sick, protects me, and tries to make sure I'm always comfortable and happy. I realize though that's not enough when dealing with lies and online dating sites. It's like he has this amazing side, yet his faults overshadow everything.
Today, I find his profile on POF. I just felt in my heart something wasn't right and we had been fighting recently. I found it through his email, hacked into his profile, and saw tons of messages. He has given out his number to at least 10 girls, and tried to meet up with 2. I immediately told him I wanted him to leave, and that I was done. I have never caught him physically cheating on me, but I know that this is the path leading to it if he hasn't already.
Basically, I would just like advice. Give it to me straight, but please don't bash me. I need to know if I should just kick him out and get a divorce, raise this baby on my own, and be done or if he will ever change. At this point I doubt him changing and I'm exhausted from the lies and deception, but I guess I need to hear other points of view. I thank you all in advance.
Today, I find his profile on POF. I just felt in my heart something wasn't right and we had been fighting recently. I found it through his email, hacked into his profile, and saw tons of messages. He has given out his number to at least 10 girls, and tried to meet up with 2. I immediately told him I wanted him to leave, and that I was done. I have never caught him physically cheating on me, but I know that this is the path leading to it if he hasn't already.
Basically, I would just like advice. Give it to me straight, but please don't bash me. I need to know if I should just kick him out and get a divorce, raise this baby on my own, and be done or if he will ever change. At this point I doubt him changing and I'm exhausted from the lies and deception, but I guess I need to hear other points of view. I thank you all in advance.
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