Today seemed to be guy talk day, coupe buddies over and after the usual in depth "which jumping stallion" "what reigning stallion", blah blah blah, had passed my buddy asked my opinion on an issue in his relationship.
Problem seems to go along the lines of.
She teases and promises BJs and never does the deed.
She allows him to finger play and use a toy in her a$$ and tells him that she likes it but won't actually go any further or show him what she likes, leading him to believe that she doesn't actually like but tollerates his attempts and attention to please him.
She always dresses in sweat pants or jeans, he tells mehe has bought and encourages her to wear dresses and skirts but she won't or at least seldom ever does, he said he tried to get her to do dress up one night but it really didn't go down well at all.
He kind of describes sex as becoming more and more vanilla and "boring".
I am no therapist and wondered what the wider audience of TAM suggested???
My usual "put out or get out" mentality is not favoured by Keith so thats a no go there.
Problem seems to go along the lines of.
She teases and promises BJs and never does the deed.
She allows him to finger play and use a toy in her a$$ and tells him that she likes it but won't actually go any further or show him what she likes, leading him to believe that she doesn't actually like but tollerates his attempts and attention to please him.
She always dresses in sweat pants or jeans, he tells mehe has bought and encourages her to wear dresses and skirts but she won't or at least seldom ever does, he said he tried to get her to do dress up one night but it really didn't go down well at all.
He kind of describes sex as becoming more and more vanilla and "boring".
I am no therapist and wondered what the wider audience of TAM suggested???
My usual "put out or get out" mentality is not favoured by Keith so thats a no go there.
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