I'm an 18 year old guy, and I've been going out with this girl for about half a year now, and to be honest I think from my perspective, it's better for us to part ways. We've never had sex, and recently I've realised that I see her more as a very good friend than as a girlfriend, meaning that despite the fact I do find her attractive, there is a complete lack of intimacy from me towards her.
Normally I'd be fine with this, and I would break up etc, however recently she's had some trouble at home with her own family, and that's hit her hard emotionally. As I said, I still see her as a good friend, and so it would be undesirable to break up and not be friends, but I'm worried that if I leave her now, she's going to be put in an awful place emotionally. Would it be selfish and emotionally stunted for me to break up now? At the same time, how can I continue to go out with her and keep lying to her and myself about how I feel regarding the relationship? I'm pretty air she's got a different view of the relationship than me.
Thanks.
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