http://ift.tt/1lPXA3Z
The above was my previous thread a year ago. The good news is that I got my son back to the states and things for a year have been "decent"
Last month my wife went to brazil for a week, this time alone. Her reasoning was that she needed to see a dentist and friends.
When I would ask who, or say it is ridiculous to spend 3000 to see a dentist she would get mad, angry, yell, scream call names etc. She has been working part time to save for her ticket. I had to pay 500 for a sitter.
So now she is back and I am going through hell. All she talks about is divorce divorce divorce. Won't sleep in the same bed. Won't talk to me. Etc.
So 2 days ago she seems to have calmed down, and said we should live together as roommates. Of course I still pay all the bills, car lease, rent on a nice home etc.
But now she says she started a new "business" in which she brings items to brazil to sell. She is leaving in 2 weeks, again alone, and she told me I should take off work (my business that pays very bill) or pay for a sitter. All the money she claims she will make will be hers so she can move out and get her place at a later date.
I am so fed up but lost. Don't know what to do. Divorce and see my kid sparingly? Not renew the lease and not have a home? I only have 5 days to decide. Just feel sick.
Posted via Mobile Device
The above was my previous thread a year ago. The good news is that I got my son back to the states and things for a year have been "decent"
Last month my wife went to brazil for a week, this time alone. Her reasoning was that she needed to see a dentist and friends.
When I would ask who, or say it is ridiculous to spend 3000 to see a dentist she would get mad, angry, yell, scream call names etc. She has been working part time to save for her ticket. I had to pay 500 for a sitter.
So now she is back and I am going through hell. All she talks about is divorce divorce divorce. Won't sleep in the same bed. Won't talk to me. Etc.
So 2 days ago she seems to have calmed down, and said we should live together as roommates. Of course I still pay all the bills, car lease, rent on a nice home etc.
But now she says she started a new "business" in which she brings items to brazil to sell. She is leaving in 2 weeks, again alone, and she told me I should take off work (my business that pays very bill) or pay for a sitter. All the money she claims she will make will be hers so she can move out and get her place at a later date.
I am so fed up but lost. Don't know what to do. Divorce and see my kid sparingly? Not renew the lease and not have a home? I only have 5 days to decide. Just feel sick.
Posted via Mobile Device
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment