Hey everyone,
It has been a long time since I posted on here. Just wanted to share with you some things from my life, and see if anyone else has had this happen.
My ex moved out, divorced me. We have been divorced for over a year. No kids. No common friends. She actually doesn't even live anywhere near me anymore.
I am happier than I have been since college (I'm 33). After being devastated for about 6 months, I decided to work on myself. I am in great shape now, read a ton again, AND have met a wonderful woman that I really get along with and share a lot of interests with. I realize that my ex and I simply weren't compatible.
Here's what I really wanted to share: I have not seen or spoken to my ex in about 8 months. She has moved in with another guy, etc. HOWEVER, for about the past 5 months she has made dozens of attempts to contact myself or my family members (including family members that she wasn't even friends with/knew/saw much). I have not responded to any of her attempts. I have no desire to. The thought of her actually makes my stomach turn (not a joke or exaggeration). It is honestly annoying me quite a bit. I do not want to contact her to tell her this because I feel like A) she will use it as an excuse to harass me or B) she will only do crazier things. What's the deal??? She moved out, she filed, etc. etc. etc. Thoughts?
It has been a long time since I posted on here. Just wanted to share with you some things from my life, and see if anyone else has had this happen.
My ex moved out, divorced me. We have been divorced for over a year. No kids. No common friends. She actually doesn't even live anywhere near me anymore.
I am happier than I have been since college (I'm 33). After being devastated for about 6 months, I decided to work on myself. I am in great shape now, read a ton again, AND have met a wonderful woman that I really get along with and share a lot of interests with. I realize that my ex and I simply weren't compatible.
Here's what I really wanted to share: I have not seen or spoken to my ex in about 8 months. She has moved in with another guy, etc. HOWEVER, for about the past 5 months she has made dozens of attempts to contact myself or my family members (including family members that she wasn't even friends with/knew/saw much). I have not responded to any of her attempts. I have no desire to. The thought of her actually makes my stomach turn (not a joke or exaggeration). It is honestly annoying me quite a bit. I do not want to contact her to tell her this because I feel like A) she will use it as an excuse to harass me or B) she will only do crazier things. What's the deal??? She moved out, she filed, etc. etc. etc. Thoughts?
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