I have several problems when it comes the the female gender, and if any of you could offer some help that'd be great. I'm 21 and have never had sex, embarrassingly enough, and I feel like my situation is hopeless, that I will never touch or kiss a woman romantically, I'll never hold a woman's hand or go on a date. I'll never look in someone's eyes or have awkward sex because history has shown me people dont want that with me.
1) I have no idea where to meet women. My friends and I don't go out, we just get stoned. I'd like to socialise more, but they don't want to and I can't go clubbing on my own. My uni only has like 40 students in our building, the actual campus is in a different city so its not like I'm at a uni crawling with women, and I feel awkward chatting up random women in the street/library/costa like people suggest.
2) I don't connect with women. I can talk to them, no bother, but I can't flirt, I've never experienced chemistry with a woman. People like me when they get to know me, but I'm an oddball initially and I don't make great first impressions. On the few occassions I have met a woman I liked I've been shot down every time. Most people seem to just walk into relationships, it just happens, yet I've never found myself in that position.
3) I'm unattractive. That isn't me being negative, its just the truth. I've never been fancied, or called hot etc. I have a bit of a beer belly and unpredictable hair. I'm clever and I'm funny (isnt this post just a sidesplitter...) but I'm not charismatic or good looking. I also have zero sexual experience. I make a good friend, but nothing more.
4) I fear my standards are too high
-Must have political interests
-Preferably smokes weed
-Preferably enjoys sci fi or something equally geeky
-Must be friendly and down to earth
-Cannot belong to an organised religion
Thank you for your help, I can't stand the idea that I might be a 30 year old virgin like some other guys on the internet, maybe I should just pay and get it out of the way
1) I have no idea where to meet women. My friends and I don't go out, we just get stoned. I'd like to socialise more, but they don't want to and I can't go clubbing on my own. My uni only has like 40 students in our building, the actual campus is in a different city so its not like I'm at a uni crawling with women, and I feel awkward chatting up random women in the street/library/costa like people suggest.
2) I don't connect with women. I can talk to them, no bother, but I can't flirt, I've never experienced chemistry with a woman. People like me when they get to know me, but I'm an oddball initially and I don't make great first impressions. On the few occassions I have met a woman I liked I've been shot down every time. Most people seem to just walk into relationships, it just happens, yet I've never found myself in that position.
3) I'm unattractive. That isn't me being negative, its just the truth. I've never been fancied, or called hot etc. I have a bit of a beer belly and unpredictable hair. I'm clever and I'm funny (isnt this post just a sidesplitter...) but I'm not charismatic or good looking. I also have zero sexual experience. I make a good friend, but nothing more.
4) I fear my standards are too high
-Must have political interests
-Preferably smokes weed
-Preferably enjoys sci fi or something equally geeky
-Must be friendly and down to earth
-Cannot belong to an organised religion
Thank you for your help, I can't stand the idea that I might be a 30 year old virgin like some other guys on the internet, maybe I should just pay and get it out of the way
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