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Hello I would like to share my story and get some feedback. Sorry but it's kinda long. My husband and I have been married 8 years. On March the 4th he wrote me a letter telling me he wanted a divorce. The main statement was that he loved me just not how he thinks a husband should love his wife. I choose to leave the house to give him space and time to think. We have two kids and it is killing me to be away from them. The last two years of our marriage have been a struggle. I was diagonsed with anxity and depression. I was having panic attacks weelky and went through tons of meds and finally i just gave up. I put all the responsiblty on him. Except for work I did nothing, just came home and slept. We didnt go places didnt do things with the kids. The last few months I have finally found a medication that works no panic attacks no depression. I am on the mend. The boom out of now where comes this divorce. He has said some things that I dont understand. Firs t time we talked he said that he was a man of his word and still ment what he said in the letter. He has told me that since I moved out he is finally happy. The last time we talked it turned into a big fight we have never fought before. He told me that his family wants him to get a divorce if it makes him happy. These are good christian folks church every week and all that it implies.
He has told me that he didnt know if he married me because he fell in love with me or my son. We are going to counceling this week. I just dont know what to do it feels like my whole life has been a lie. If we do work this out how could I stand to be around his family after they told him that. They didnt say stay or try to make it work. Just do what makes you happy with no thought of me or their grandchildren. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks for listining.

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