This thread is inspired by another recent thread on whether it's possible to escape the friend-zone. Predictably the OP came until fire for having the temerity to be a guy who wanted a girlfriend and wasn't jumping for joy over the fact that the girl he fancied only wanted him as a friend (read: beta orbiter to act as emotional tampon while she spins other plates)
So many people struggle with this very basic idea of the friend-zone (TFZ). TFZ in essence refers to any situation where a guy or girl wants a romantic relationship with another person but said other person only wants them as a friend. Some people in TFZ might feel they're entitled to sex because they act nice, most probably don't though.
Here's the story for your average AFC (average frustrated chump) in TFZ.
Guy has been told all his life to always treat women nice. To always respect women. To not make them feel pressured or threatened. To not be sexually assertive or dominant lest they feel uncomfortable. Naturally then when he sees a girl he likes, he figures the right way to go about things is to act like her friend. He listens to all her problems, puts her needs ahead of his, endures all her lengthy phone calls, buys her stuff, and acts like her emotional tampon the whole time. Not because he feels 'entitled' (entitled people just take stuff they're after anyway, that's the whole point of being entitled), but because his feminised society has taught him to pedastalise women. All the while he suffers the acute emotional anguish of wanting to be with someone while having those feelings unrequited by the object of his affection.
So after putting up with all this ****, one day he has the temerity to moan (oh dear Lord, how could he do such a terrible, evil thing?!!!) about being stuck in TFZ, and immediately a bunch of autistic feminists savage him for being some entitled pervert misogynist that thinks women are machines for dispensing sex, when all the while this poor sap just wanted a girlfriend and followed what he'd already been taught to try to get one.
Seriously, the amount of misandry in society is getting ridiculous. Guys can't even lament about their unrequited love now without being attacked. Is there even any empathy for men at all now in society? It's getting to the point where men are getting shamed and criticised for every single thing they do.
So many people struggle with this very basic idea of the friend-zone (TFZ). TFZ in essence refers to any situation where a guy or girl wants a romantic relationship with another person but said other person only wants them as a friend. Some people in TFZ might feel they're entitled to sex because they act nice, most probably don't though.
Here's the story for your average AFC (average frustrated chump) in TFZ.
Guy has been told all his life to always treat women nice. To always respect women. To not make them feel pressured or threatened. To not be sexually assertive or dominant lest they feel uncomfortable. Naturally then when he sees a girl he likes, he figures the right way to go about things is to act like her friend. He listens to all her problems, puts her needs ahead of his, endures all her lengthy phone calls, buys her stuff, and acts like her emotional tampon the whole time. Not because he feels 'entitled' (entitled people just take stuff they're after anyway, that's the whole point of being entitled), but because his feminised society has taught him to pedastalise women. All the while he suffers the acute emotional anguish of wanting to be with someone while having those feelings unrequited by the object of his affection.
So after putting up with all this ****, one day he has the temerity to moan (oh dear Lord, how could he do such a terrible, evil thing?!!!) about being stuck in TFZ, and immediately a bunch of autistic feminists savage him for being some entitled pervert misogynist that thinks women are machines for dispensing sex, when all the while this poor sap just wanted a girlfriend and followed what he'd already been taught to try to get one.
Seriously, the amount of misandry in society is getting ridiculous. Guys can't even lament about their unrequited love now without being attacked. Is there even any empathy for men at all now in society? It's getting to the point where men are getting shamed and criticised for every single thing they do.
Put the internet to work for you.
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