Okay guys.....Has your wife or GF ever gotten mad at you for looking at an attractive woman?Not slack jaw ogling with drool falling from your lips:p Or double takes.But just checking them out..quick glances...You know what I mean...I hope?
Now my wife has over the years said things to me like..."Oh hey...we got this new supervisor at work...and he's really good looking but seems like an a$$" I've heard that one a couple of times...Or mention an actor.."I don't really care for younger men but Channing Tatum is really handsome". " That guy at the coffee shop is cute...wonder why he dresses like a bum?"
There always seemed to be a "but" or some other reason the guy was flawed.
She has said things like this many times....never phased me...I'm not really the jealous type or get bent out of shape over things like that. I have never said directly to her any woman is good looking or hot....I am guilty of looking sometimes....which brings me to a few weeks ago. We are out shopping at Kohl's and a very...and I do mean very hot woman walked by...short red dress, great legs, great everything....I did my little glance...nothing stupidly obvious....I swear it was a short look....To be honest it had to be a short look because she darted into the racks of clothes just a few feet from us and was gone.
My wife noticed that I checked her out and was fine until we got home...She asked me why I do that when I'm with her and said it hurts her...and I can understand that..I don't want to hurt her. But whatever I said didn't make it better...and I got kind of mad and finally said.."Then why is it can you say right to my face when you think a man is attractive...RIGHT TO MY FACE!"
But if I just look it's the end of the world....
She had no answer for that.
Guess what....She hasn't said anything about anyone being hot to me again and as for me.....I try...I try really hard not to look at other women when out with her and usually do pretty good....But then...maybe this is my flaw???
And she loves me flaws and all, just as I love her:)
Now my wife has over the years said things to me like..."Oh hey...we got this new supervisor at work...and he's really good looking but seems like an a$$" I've heard that one a couple of times...Or mention an actor.."I don't really care for younger men but Channing Tatum is really handsome". " That guy at the coffee shop is cute...wonder why he dresses like a bum?"
There always seemed to be a "but" or some other reason the guy was flawed.
She has said things like this many times....never phased me...I'm not really the jealous type or get bent out of shape over things like that. I have never said directly to her any woman is good looking or hot....I am guilty of looking sometimes....which brings me to a few weeks ago. We are out shopping at Kohl's and a very...and I do mean very hot woman walked by...short red dress, great legs, great everything....I did my little glance...nothing stupidly obvious....I swear it was a short look....To be honest it had to be a short look because she darted into the racks of clothes just a few feet from us and was gone.
My wife noticed that I checked her out and was fine until we got home...She asked me why I do that when I'm with her and said it hurts her...and I can understand that..I don't want to hurt her. But whatever I said didn't make it better...and I got kind of mad and finally said.."Then why is it can you say right to my face when you think a man is attractive...RIGHT TO MY FACE!"
But if I just look it's the end of the world....
She had no answer for that.
Guess what....She hasn't said anything about anyone being hot to me again and as for me.....I try...I try really hard not to look at other women when out with her and usually do pretty good....But then...maybe this is my flaw???
And she loves me flaws and all, just as I love her:)
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