Most of what he says tends to be a complaint about something or a mockery of the way some people are. He often says negative things about me too, in a kind of jokey way but since it's so frequent i know that it's what he thinks of me. For example when I make a small mistake or am a bit clumsy he says I'm very absent minded. I don't mind criticism but since i hear it all the time it gets me down.
Everyone has negative thoughts that they have to deal with but since negative comments make up most of what he says it gets me down because I strive to stay positive, while coping with my own struggles like anxiety. It's frustrating because I love him and we have great times together but I feel like his view of life and each other is so different to mine and I want him to be happy.
My question is how should I go about talking about this with him? He doesn't seem take criticism as well as I do.
Everyone has negative thoughts that they have to deal with but since negative comments make up most of what he says it gets me down because I strive to stay positive, while coping with my own struggles like anxiety. It's frustrating because I love him and we have great times together but I feel like his view of life and each other is so different to mine and I want him to be happy.
My question is how should I go about talking about this with him? He doesn't seem take criticism as well as I do.
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