Hey bit of background: I've made a few threads recently about how to ask a girl out, never been in a relationship, fear of rejection, etc...and then this happened.
This girl at work, who I'm 100% not attracted to basically asked me out.
I made it completely awkward as it completely through me. I did not see it coming at all, and it coincided with a really busy period at work.
She asked me if I liked her.
Me: erm, ah yeah I enjoy working with you, and everyone likes being around you.
Her: So you don't like me?
Me: huh? I didn't say that?
Her: Yes, but do you 'like, like' me?
Me: erh, oh erh not in that way. But your a good friend.
Her: oh. So you don't like me & don't want to hang out together?
Me: erh, no that's not what I said. Erm, I gotta go and sort a problem out. I'll talk later.
Later:
Her: So why have you lead me on? I feel stupid. I thought you liked me. Your always smiling at me, welcoming, helped me when I joined, defended me, got me food in the canteen when I didn't have anything to eat, your kind, make me laugh...why lead me on?
Me: ???????? I'm sorry I gave you that impression, but that's just me.
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I mean in the supervisor! It's my job to train her. It's my nature and my job to make people feel welcome and included.
I'll defend all my colleagues if they are getting abuse from customers.
I'm always smiling. I say hi to everyone. I will help people if they need a hand...that's just my personality?
I feel bad for 'rejecting her', especially since I'm trying to work up the courage to ask someone else out, but I don't know what to do.
I'm not attracted to her, there some aspects of her personality I don't like, so I'm not just going to say yes.
Right now I feel like she is making me feel mad for just being me.
What more can u do, or say?
This girl at work, who I'm 100% not attracted to basically asked me out.
I made it completely awkward as it completely through me. I did not see it coming at all, and it coincided with a really busy period at work.
She asked me if I liked her.
Me: erm, ah yeah I enjoy working with you, and everyone likes being around you.
Her: So you don't like me?
Me: huh? I didn't say that?
Her: Yes, but do you 'like, like' me?
Me: erh, oh erh not in that way. But your a good friend.
Her: oh. So you don't like me & don't want to hang out together?
Me: erh, no that's not what I said. Erm, I gotta go and sort a problem out. I'll talk later.
Later:
Her: So why have you lead me on? I feel stupid. I thought you liked me. Your always smiling at me, welcoming, helped me when I joined, defended me, got me food in the canteen when I didn't have anything to eat, your kind, make me laugh...why lead me on?
Me: ???????? I'm sorry I gave you that impression, but that's just me.
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I mean in the supervisor! It's my job to train her. It's my nature and my job to make people feel welcome and included.
I'll defend all my colleagues if they are getting abuse from customers.
I'm always smiling. I say hi to everyone. I will help people if they need a hand...that's just my personality?
I feel bad for 'rejecting her', especially since I'm trying to work up the courage to ask someone else out, but I don't know what to do.
I'm not attracted to her, there some aspects of her personality I don't like, so I'm not just going to say yes.
Right now I feel like she is making me feel mad for just being me.
What more can u do, or say?
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