This is my first post before contemplating going to some sort of marriage/sex counselor. I'm 45 yom and I've been married to my 41 yo wife for15 years we have. 2 children ages 14 and 11. In all we are happy but herein lyes the problem. For whatever reason my wife has lost all interest in any kind of sexual activity with me. She refuses to go to a doctor to rule out and medical condition. Her reasons vary from she can't preform when kids are around to she's not happy with her body lately due to weight gain. I arrange date nights where it's just her and I and constantly tell her she's beautiful but still no sex. This in turn, for lack of a better phrase , pisses me off and then I do things that are mean to her; ignore her, have a few too many beers ect....nothing violent. It seems like a vicious cycle where she shuts me down with no sex and I do behavior she doesn't appreciate. As of this writing I think the last time we made love was 2 or 3 months ago and since sex is so far and in between it didn't last long :mad: if you get my meaning. I'm getting real close to cheating on my beloved wife, not for lack of love, but for lack of an innate desire to have sex. In my profession I have more than enough opportunities to have one night stands so can someone help me before I do something I might regret? Right now I look at our sex life as someone having a nice car that's parked in the garage for months at a time, I just want to take it out for a spin a couple times a week.
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