Will it come across as needy if I even text her before she texts me?
I've started to feel I should not even contact her until she shows that she is willing to engage in conversation that day because people tell me I'm too clingy wanting to ask how she is every day (unless she specifically says she's unavailable of course, which I would respect, just as I hope she'd respect me if I was in that situation)
Part of the 'guys should be independent' belief I have. Reality is there will be days I'm home doing sweet FA, maybe playing video games or watching TV to chill, or studying. Don't want to have to constantly seem busy to keep interest levels high, it's an artificial way to live.
I've started to feel I should not even contact her until she shows that she is willing to engage in conversation that day because people tell me I'm too clingy wanting to ask how she is every day (unless she specifically says she's unavailable of course, which I would respect, just as I hope she'd respect me if I was in that situation)
Part of the 'guys should be independent' belief I have. Reality is there will be days I'm home doing sweet FA, maybe playing video games or watching TV to chill, or studying. Don't want to have to constantly seem busy to keep interest levels high, it's an artificial way to live.
Put the internet to work for you.

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