| I know this is a debate that has no right answers but find myself so conflicted. Is it better to separate and divorce or stay together, be friendly roommates and coparent the children? I have two girls. Do I want to set the example and have them grow up to be in marriages like mine? No. Do I want to divorce and take away their family unit? No. Do I want to lose control over their care and well being 50% of the time, opening the door to husband having a new relationship and this other woman being an influence in my daughters lives? No. Do I want to continue my marriage the way it is? No, and I'm losing hope in any possibility of repair. We are great parents. After 15 years I believe maybe we're not great spouses. Is it possible to stay together for the kids? But then what would divorcing the day after the youngest turned 18...what damage would that do? It's no win. | |||
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Stay for the kids?
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