Hi guys, I'm not new here but I created this account to remain anonymous.
To start, I'm a 22 year old male asian this year studying Law at one of the UK uni. There's this girl that I have known for some time (out of convenience I guess since same country and studying same subject) and we are pretty close. I know she likes me and she has confessed many times before. I THOUGHT I like her too as I kinda enjoyed the 3 or 4 times we went out during summer holiday back at home. We went out for a whole day and time with her just seems to passed so fast. We even made out last night (although she was slightly high and i was kinda horny and bored.. although no sex).
However, I realised what I can't stand are her need for attention, princess syndrome (like she blatantly wants me to help or accompany her whenever she needs to go somewhere and gives me the black face or complain if I don't want .. or how she constantly wants to lie or rest her head on me whenever im just lying on the couch.. or even put my leg across the table so can use it as a leg rest.. sounds lame I know), and also how she likes to come to my room and disturb me when i just want some alone time sometimes (im somewhat the introvert, she's an extrovert). I can click with her quite well but she's sometimes too "LOUD" and crude in front of other people which I can't take it either. I guess currently we're just "seeing" each other with no status. But I dont think i can carry on with this dilemma..
I have never been in a relationship before although i've had 3 other girls confessed to me in my life time (but i never liked them). There was this girl that i'm quite fond of now but I missed my chance when she confessed to me few years ago, and now she's taken. ): We still keep in touch though. I feel it was such a waste.. guess I wasn't ready for a relationship 3 years ago. Honestly, I think i'm quite decent looking and a very nice guy... that's why girls like me. So really, I'm asking this because I don't know if this girl right now is the girl for me and whether I should give it a serious shot OR that I'm just attracted to the whole novelty of dating since i'm in university and almost everyone is getting into a r/s...
I should also mention that this girl can be a bit wild (she likes clubbing, party, smoked before, but she's not all bad although quite susceptible to peer pressure). I club sometimes too although only for social reasons and don't particularly enjoy it. I don't smoke or do weed. But I think my ideal girl is really someone who is more gentle, independent, thoughtful, christian, don't club much, and really just you know wife material like my mom..
So please help me.. should I give my best chance with this girl or make it clear that we won't work out before things get ugly (since i'm staying with her along with my 4 other housemates) and just focus on study and see what comes along? Appreciate any advice please.
To start, I'm a 22 year old male asian this year studying Law at one of the UK uni. There's this girl that I have known for some time (out of convenience I guess since same country and studying same subject) and we are pretty close. I know she likes me and she has confessed many times before. I THOUGHT I like her too as I kinda enjoyed the 3 or 4 times we went out during summer holiday back at home. We went out for a whole day and time with her just seems to passed so fast. We even made out last night (although she was slightly high and i was kinda horny and bored.. although no sex).
However, I realised what I can't stand are her need for attention, princess syndrome (like she blatantly wants me to help or accompany her whenever she needs to go somewhere and gives me the black face or complain if I don't want .. or how she constantly wants to lie or rest her head on me whenever im just lying on the couch.. or even put my leg across the table so can use it as a leg rest.. sounds lame I know), and also how she likes to come to my room and disturb me when i just want some alone time sometimes (im somewhat the introvert, she's an extrovert). I can click with her quite well but she's sometimes too "LOUD" and crude in front of other people which I can't take it either. I guess currently we're just "seeing" each other with no status. But I dont think i can carry on with this dilemma..
I have never been in a relationship before although i've had 3 other girls confessed to me in my life time (but i never liked them). There was this girl that i'm quite fond of now but I missed my chance when she confessed to me few years ago, and now she's taken. ): We still keep in touch though. I feel it was such a waste.. guess I wasn't ready for a relationship 3 years ago. Honestly, I think i'm quite decent looking and a very nice guy... that's why girls like me. So really, I'm asking this because I don't know if this girl right now is the girl for me and whether I should give it a serious shot OR that I'm just attracted to the whole novelty of dating since i'm in university and almost everyone is getting into a r/s...
I should also mention that this girl can be a bit wild (she likes clubbing, party, smoked before, but she's not all bad although quite susceptible to peer pressure). I club sometimes too although only for social reasons and don't particularly enjoy it. I don't smoke or do weed. But I think my ideal girl is really someone who is more gentle, independent, thoughtful, christian, don't club much, and really just you know wife material like my mom..
So please help me.. should I give my best chance with this girl or make it clear that we won't work out before things get ugly (since i'm staying with her along with my 4 other housemates) and just focus on study and see what comes along? Appreciate any advice please.
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