Hey, so if you look at my post in the private section you'll see my situation. I'll be starting over soon and I am fairly HD, probably the male equivalent of Curiouswife to put things in perspective. I could still manage daily with my back pain and workload, haven't done the "how many times can we" for such a long time I'm not sure of that anymore...
The difficult thing is I am very traditional in my ways, I need to be into someone and emotionally connected(yes I am a guy lol) for the HD to come into play. Right now I've got nothing for my stbxw because that connection is gone despite her still being beautiful and attractive.
I've seen enough here to say that HD is probably either in you or it isn't, no matter the strength of a relationship there will be the LD-normal-HD all +/- as life/stress affects.
How do you go about finding someone HD under these circumstances when you're not a craigslist man-hoar looking for a slvt, for lack of better terms?
The difficult thing is I am very traditional in my ways, I need to be into someone and emotionally connected(yes I am a guy lol) for the HD to come into play. Right now I've got nothing for my stbxw because that connection is gone despite her still being beautiful and attractive.
I've seen enough here to say that HD is probably either in you or it isn't, no matter the strength of a relationship there will be the LD-normal-HD all +/- as life/stress affects.
How do you go about finding someone HD under these circumstances when you're not a craigslist man-hoar looking for a slvt, for lack of better terms?
Put the internet to work for you.
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