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GF cheated coz she was unhappy - I realise my mistakes and want her back - should I?

GF of 6 months went on holiday and cheated on me with someone she met that very day. They are not going out or anything. She said she was drunk and didn't know why/how that happened. But she said she was unhappy in the relationship. I broke up with her, nicely, because she cheated on me and told her not to contact me until I contact her. So we haven't been in touch for 2 months now.

Over this period, I had time to think over our relationship. My GF would hurt me one way or the other, without her knowing - but they were very simple things that didn't really matter, but I would just not explain it to her and just be quiet and she'd cry. I feel like a dick when I think of it. But I now realise that if only I had told her why I was quiet or unhappy, she would have done anything for me, and wouldn't possibly get to the stage of cheating. (I don't obviously know if cheating had anything to do with her being unhappy, or she just wanted a fresh meat!)

Now, I'm going through so much and thinking to make things normal with her. I like her and she's worth me taking her back. But even if I want to, she probably wouldn't want to be with me. So I don't know what I should do here.

I want to say everything about how I feel about her and how I will change how I used to be. But then I also want to take things slowly, like start going to places as friends and then spend time with her, and finally ask her back.

What do you guys think?

I know some of you will probably say "be a man, move on, forget her, she's not worth it", and I can completely understand that since I thought that for the last 2 months. But she is one of a kind, the very best I can get out there and it sucks that she's not in my life anymore. I can live without her and have another relationship with someone else, but I'd rather work things with her than start something new. What should I do?




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