My husband gets extremly upset if i ever talk with any neighbours

My husband only suppose to work out of town 15 days per month. Recently, he has stayed out of home around 18-22 days a month which is 3 to 7 days more per month than he suppose to stay out of house overnight for work. i found that he has 2 movie tickets from our town's theatre in his pockets sept 30 2012 and i know who accompanied him was not me; I found out he has resturant invoices from our town when he claimed he was working out of town; 1. he always wants to go out without me when he is finally home which is only 8 - 12 days/ month 2...or when he is finally home for 8 days a month, he will agree to his ex wife to help her on their kids from their past marriage. but he never willing to help me on our kids he has with me 3. or when he is finally home for 8 days only, he will try to pick a bone out of a egg----he will try very hard to provok me. why is he trying to provok me so hard? what should i do with him? tell him to leave from the house, it's like help him realize his affair dream; and i have taken care 3 babies he has with me, all by myself 18-22 days at a monthly base, i need him to help me on our kids when he is home; but by leaving him in the house, he will agree to his ex to have his kids over which is more work load for me, even though he is around anyway; or he will try very hard to provok me, or he will do both, provok me and help his ex. such as having kids he has with her over on her birthday July 4th, to screw up my independent day holiday. He also gets extremly upset if i ever talk with any neighbours. Why?

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979