Partner has ED. I feel like giving up!

I am so fed up today. My partner developed ED after he cheated on me a year ago. I have tried to be as patient as possible but its been sheer hell for me at times. We have done MC/IC to overcome the cheating part but its the sex that is stumping both of us from moving forward. Its created such a huge wedge between us and we argument about it every two weeks. He has tried all kinds of medication and we have only had foreplay a handful of times in the seven months that we have reconciled properly. He finally took Viagra last week which worked. I was hoping that he would initiate more after that but its been another 8 days since. I have asked him so many times to try initiating more and that it doesn't need to be PIV sex for me to be satisfied. Last night he says that I am being impatient with him as his ED wont be solved over night. I am just going around in circles. I feel like handing in the towel.:mad:

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