| Every time I think about putting a VAR in WH car, I get physically ill. I have decided that this isn't something I can do. I still check up on him in other ways but I do realize that I will never, ever be sure he isn't still cheating (even if I divorce and get involved with someone else I will never again fully trust, my husband was the last person I could see cheating). Anyway, I know a big part of my not wanting to use a VAR is that I am afraid of what I would hear if he is cheating. I mean I had a hard enough time when I discovered the cheating through name/number on scraps of paper, I can't imagine hearing things. Especially if he were to say mean/disparaging things about me. I do NOT have any reason to believe he is still cheating. R has been a roller coaster but has been ongoing for nearly 18 mos now. I do feel weak. My goal is to remain with my husband. I will not change my mind about the VAR, I would rather divorce first. Please tell me your views. Am I alone in my way of thinking? | |||
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decided not to go the VAR route. What's your view?
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