Wife asked me what turned me on...were my answers too nice?

We have been married for 14 years and our sex life has had its ups and downs. We have been doing better for several years - some of which I owe in part to being a much more assertive husband, father and person overall. Not being such a nice guy - but not being a jerk. So it's been her time of the month and unless the stars align for us both, we usually don't have sex for these 4-5 days. Doesn't help that a few days before her time she gets super mean and a little crazy - so it can be 5-7 days. Last night we are both tired but it's been a week so she's flirted a little - which is great. But sex was not a priority for either of us - not with the weekend coming up. All is good. But then right as I'm dozing off she asks me "hey can i ask you a question - what really turns you on the most?" I'm like - well crap can I get back to you! Give me 2 days lol. Can I have a top 10? So she's being real flirty with it and says sure I won't hold you to it 10 years from now or anything. So I think for a few minutes and told her the following: When she initiates When she flirts with me during the day leading up to sex When she dresses provocatively - inside and outside the bedroom. When she orgasms When she talks really dirty to me. And that was it. All good we go to sleep. Now all those things do happen sometimes - but not enough for my liking. They are definitely arousal triggers for me. Now here I am second guessing myself - I'm thinking how those answers sound very needy and dependent on her and her pleasure. Did I screw up a little here and slip into my old Nice Guy ways with my response? Appreciate your thoughts.

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