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Should I tell my ex about my graduate job?

Me and my ex have been talking and texting for a few weeks now. I told her a month or so ago that I had a job interview for a graduate job. She just text me "are you still job hunting?". I got the job and its quite a good job but I don't know if I should tell her because I'm worried she'll like me more now that I'm sorted in the next stage in my life. But at the same time, the stability for her could be a good thing?

I don't know if I want to be with her or I'm just texting her because I'm bored. That's another reason why I'm not sure if I should tell her. I was thinking that if I do end up having feelings for her again, then I would want her to like me and not the fact that say I have a good job and money and whatever, but if we broke up and I haven't changed much then maybe she won't want to carry on talking and let those feelings develop? I don't know.

It's hard to know exactly how I'm feeling about her and I could feel in the future. I think it's like I'm bored and so I think about my ex more because she's the most fun time I can think of, so I want to be in that situation again, but it doesn't have to be with her but as it was with her that's why I picture/think of her (if that makes sense?). I have tried being with other girls but at that time I'd compare them to my ex and not do anything with them. Now I'm being really selective about another girl I go for but I think I will always have a soft spot for my ex.

Can you guys give me some help please?




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