Overreacting or is it really a lie?

Hi All, I am not sure if I am overreacting or making a problem where there doesn't need to be one. Any advice would be greatly appreciated... Here is my story and what this particular problem is about. My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for almost 9 of them. When I was pregnant with my oldest child (10yrs ago) I discovered that he was having phone conversations with his ex gf. I confronted him about it and he said it was innocent yet at the time of the conversations he wasn't in my presence he would always leave the house and talk outside. To be fair he did this no matter who he was on the phone with. He said he would stop since it bothered me. I checked his phone records a couple weeks after the confrontation and her number was on his list of call. He had lied. Or at least I saw it that way. My question to everyone is: Should it be considered a lie if he just didn't tell me about it? I forgave him and decided to stay with him. I love him and didn't want to leave him. I am now past it and I have finally forgiven him for this incident. About 3 years after this I was looking in his wallet, I had trust issues after the ex thing. I found an 800 number and it said GGW over it. I didn't know what it was for so I called it. Well it was to order the Girls Gone Wild videos. I was shocked and hurt. We had a huge blow up fight about it. I considered him hiding it from me a lie. He does not. He does not see how I can feel the way I feel. He thought I was only mad because it is porn. I have never gotten over this. I am constantly wondering what he isn't telling me. Am I overreacting? What does everyone think about this?

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