| been struggling for a long time, married for 7 but been together for 17 years. have read many books that have been recommended on this forum and have just read 5 love languages which puts me in a dilemma and the reason for this post. from this book i can see that my love language is 'acts of service' and my h is 'physical touch' this awareness allows me to see exactly where things are going wrong as during this difficult time my h has become overbearingly touchy feely, constantly touching, saying i love you, wanting to know where i am what i'm doing and i'm finding this extremely claustrophobic to the point that instead of helping our relationship its actually hindering. me on the other hand seem to be constantly waiting for my h to show me my love language so to speak of 'acts of service', i would love us to do a project together, to paint together, DIY together, something in the garden or the home etc but to my h this is worse than hell, theses things are the last things he wants to do, he would rather just sit in front of the telly or on the computer. so you see our problem....where do we go from here.....my h can't do the 'acts of service' and the way i feel about mu h i am finding it increasingly difficult to talk his love language also stale mate i think any help would be appreciated | |||
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