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Does this mean he doesn't care?

Hi all,

Me and my husband have been trying to work our issues out. First I told him that I think we need marriage counseling and I asked him if he would go. I looked into it and it was too expensive. He didn't bring it up after the initial conversation (which I started). I signed up for the free emails from Mort Fertel. I read them and started doing the stuff in them. I told him about them and that I thought they were helping at least on my end. He signed up for them also, I think to appease me. Well a few weeks later I asked what he thought of them. He said, "oh those, I don't read them. They seemed stupid." I felt so defeated when he said that. Like I am the only one trying to save and improve our marriage. I ordered 2 books to try to help, The Seven Principle for Making Marriage work, and 5 Love Languages. We decided to start with the 7 principles one. We have gotten to chapter 3. The reason for my question is that he has not once picked up either book without my prompting. Or me grabbing it and saying do you want to work on the book now. He participates in the process. It just feels like he doesn't really want to because he doesn't initiate it at all. I'm afraid that he is only doing it to appease me. He seems to think that nothing is wrong, that it is all me. Like I am supposed to deal with it on my own. What is everyone's opinion on this? What do you think it means? Thanks for reading this I know it was long.




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