would you be ok with your partner having naked photos of their ex on their phone?

Last night I noticed my boyfriend had a 'secret' photo file on his phone when I asked what it was he showed me that he had stupid photos of me he'd found on facebook and hid them so I couldnt delete them blah blah, but then he also said ' im assuming there be a few saucy pictures of my ex's' when I asked what he meant he said ones they had sent him and he said naked ones, underwear ones 'kinky' outfit ones. This bothered me for two reasons one im shy, I hate my body I dont feel attractive and do not look attractive in any photos what so ever so would never send photos like this and feel slightly inferior and secondly because its a bit wierd having naked photos of ex's and then pictures although stupid of me its like a gallery of the notches on his bed posts. My dilema is that I asked him to delete them and get rid of them and although he didnt flat out deny he made a valid point saying he doesnt know if they are still there and would rather not check as he would have to look at them. So im confused shall I just leave it and we never mention it again and he never looks through or should I tell him to look for them to delete them and risk the chance of him comparing them to me or finding them more attractive and ending up feeling worse/ wierder than i already do?

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