My husband is nearly perfect, but he is so insensitive about one thing and I'm hurt

My husband is obesessed with big boobs. Problem is I don't have big boobs. I've never had body issues, but now I feel inadequate. He has no idea how he has wounded my self esteem. I'm just waiting for three years until we are in a better situation financially so I can get a boob job. I never wanted one ever before. I personally think boobs that are natural and the right size for a woman's body are more attractive, but that isn't how my husband feels. He even told me he "settled" with me in this one area. How can someone who is so loving and kind in all other aspects be so ruthlessly cruel regarding this. He is totally blind to how damaging this is. He has changed forever the way I feel about my body. He isn't perfect, but I accept him totally and would never tell him he didn't measure up in any way physically whether it was true or not. Would you get the boob job if your husband told you he wasn't attracted to your breasts? I told him tonight that he was a jerk and he said he never wanted to talk about boobs again. I hope he means it this time because last time I got upset and cried and he promised to never bring it up again a few months later he brought it up again. Now that I am the one bringing it up it is making him upset so maybe he'll stay quiet for good.

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