Just feeling down in the dumps!

Hi guys, Sitting at my desk, trying not to make eye contact with the people I work with, the tears are running down my face. Not having a good day at all or the past 4 days if I am honest. I can't stop crying, its crap. I've posted before and recently. H is having an affair; found out 3 1/2 months ago. He's depressed and doesn't know what he wants or what the hell he's doing. The house is being sold at his request. He insists he's going to move out and soul search and think about things and us (and her I expect!) She doesn't know he is suffering depression and he's not telling her he's moving out, as he's probably too scared that she'll pressure him to move in. He's quite adamant and I've questioned him time and time again on this. He says he's not sure our marriage is over at all!! And wants to go think about things and what he could lose, says he still loves me. I've said on numerous occasions to him, take me out of the equation and that will make things so much easier. He gets really upset and cries instantly. I know he's hedging his bets, what a cheek!!!! I am allowing this crap. Sorry guys, what a crap situation. Just venting!! :mad:

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