Immigration issues in relationship

I do have other posts, but wanted to keep this one separate as immigration is involved. My husband has an addictive personality, he drank a bit (6 times or so, but binge drinking, 18 canadian beer in about two hours, falling over drunk, really funny or mean or throwing up) I told him "no more". He turned to pot for the first time, he automatically smoked an ounce and a half a month 24/7 it seemed, he fell into a pot psychosis (confirmed by doc) and was verbally abusive and at one point I called the police, I wanted him to get mental help as we thought he was BP disorder at the time. It backfired, he didnt get mental help, he was just charged with assault with a deadly weapon (he was holding a knife from chopping veggies while he made a threat). At any rate, he has detoxified from the pot psychosis, he is pretty well back to normal, our marriage isn't strong we are more friends right now than anything. What he put me thru was TOO MUCH, not sure if I can go back to a relationship with him. We get along great typically these days, but when reminders of the court dates etc... comes up he gets very mean, he keeps accusing me of being a HORRIBLE human being for jeapordizing his whole life (as his immigration may be refused if they find out about this) I do not want that to happen, nor do I have the right to play God in that decision, however I felt I had no choice at that time than to call for help. Secondly, he reminds me that I brought him over here to Canada, (such bs, we met a few times, dated on line for two years, got married in Europe and he was ecstatic to move here, I never asked him, or used that to get him) and I am responsible for him (that time is running out soon, it has been two years already). How could I ask him to move out? (he asks) how cruel is that, he is still new to Canada, doesn't make that much money yet, I go thru feelings of great guilt, then anger thinking, "you moron, after what you did to me, I need to feel responsible for YOUR life?" Did you care about the damage you did to me while you were in psychosis/detoxing phase? Needless to say I have not made him move, I feel guilty, he would have a hard time paying for a place, down payment, no credit history of course etc... I need feedback on what people think, good or bad, I just want to know, as I posted on my other post, I just feel brainwashed, guilty and can't think for myself lately. It doesn't help that I have become very anemic which has caused foggy thinking, exhaustion etc... me and Doc are working on that. lol Thanks everyone! :)

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