Before you think, 'Boys have lives- we don't text 24/7 like girls', I am one of those people who hates texting all the time. I don't mind at the very start when getting to know someone but after a day I text back when I get the time.
Basically, I met this guy on tinder. We matched about a month ago but he didn't speak to me until now?? (Why?) lol.
We hit of talking, he seemed very down to earth and genuine. He added me on snapchat and told me to be prepared for loads of snaps from him. He then asked for my Facebook and added me. He previously took a while to text but I thought nothing off it.
I snooped on his Facebook after accepting his friend request and seen that he had previously been in a relationship for 3 years until 2 months ago.
However he told me he's looking to settle down and he's the perfect gentleman? I didn't specify that I wanted anything serious.
Once I replied to his snapchat he opened it and never replied. I just thought, ok he needs his space and I did mention I hate when people are clingy :/ (is that why maybe)
However, he didn't text me at all that day (I thought if you're interested in getting to know someone you would send them even a small text)
I sent him a snapchat today saying the lack of sleep and food is getting to me (studying for exams). He opened it and still hasn't replied. He was on Facebook when I was on. I tried to see if he had any recent girl friend requests so I could at least understand, 'oh he must have just preferred someone else' but he has it on private.
Should I try talking to him- I don't want to be clingy when I said I didn't like a character in a TV series because she was clingy. I already sent him a snapchat.
So far I'm thinking
- He likes someone else
- Lost interest?
- Still getting over girlfriend
I don't know, what do you guys think? I hate obsessing over this because it's wasting my time. Usually I let things like this go -.-
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