I was going to post this within my own thread, but I thought everyone could use a good laugh today. I am 100% sure my husband is in mid life crisis. His biggest thing that he doing right now is visiting porn and dating sites. This is how our MLC journey began. Well, the sites and an affair with a coworker. And then moving into a place on his own. So, today my father in law was trying everything he could to push my buttons. He tells me that if I change me, my husband will change. By change he means allow my husband to visit the porn and dating sites and think nothing of it. He's just looking FIL says. What FIL doesn't want to admit to is that my husband was having emotional affairs online and was ready to take them to the next level about the same time I found out he was on the sites. So, I say, okay he's just looking. So, why then are his priorities backward - I am the one my husband put the boundary of don't touch me sexually, don't play arou nd with sexually, don't tell me you want me, think I am sexy. Nothing of the sort...but anyone he meets on the internet sites and anyone he decides to meet can do what ever they want with him. And in places where my friends who are on the same dating sites see him because they are the ones who told me initially he was on them. My father in law says - most of those girls have had a hard life and that's why they are there to begin with. And I said, all the more reason to stay away from them, huh? My FIL says...you know, I think YOU are having a midlife crisis. I was driving down the road - my cell phone talks to me and tells me the text messages, etc. - and nearly had an accident because I couldn't' stop laughing. I am the one that got every thing dumped on so that he could go find himself. And because I am asking for respect from my husband, asking him to make up his mind about his marriage and family -- I am having the crisis? If only you guys could see how far back I can roll my eyes when I hear something as stupid as this. I just said okay....then I guess I better start behaving like it and mirror every action my husband is doing and everything will be okay. So what if I post naked pictures of myself and talk to men and have virtual sex with them ... It doesn't matter who can see them and who can't and if I feel like it I can step out and sleep with them in person, too. My FIL went silent for a moment and then says....so you are saying you don't want your husband? Why don't you ignore what your husband is doing as it is meant to be his personal business. If you don't know about it, it doesn't hurt you. I replied with, Why are we having this conversation? I am the only one living in reality right now and maybe one day you both will wake up and realize just how stupid you both look and sound. I am not kidding, I think my FIL was dropped on his head or something. I know my husband was....
Editing to say that my husband has no idea that this conversation took place and right now if I were to try and tell him about I would probably say a few things I should keep to myself.
Editing to say that my husband has no idea that this conversation took place and right now if I were to try and tell him about I would probably say a few things I should keep to myself.
Put the internet to work for you.
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