Hey,
I'm in a difficult situation and would like some collective help to settle my decision on an important matter in my life.
I've fallen in what can only be described as love with a friend I've known for the last few years... Yes that's right, true love.
All the symptoms are there, missing her when she's not with me, getting nervous before seeing her when I do, jealous when other guys are giving her too much attention, and pretty much thinking the world of her. In the words of Bruno Mars; I would catch a grenade for her.
I know having a crush on a friend is usually entering dangerous territory which is why I am here.
The point being that we go to different universities and with terms beginning in 2 weeks there isn't long left for me to act, if at all.
We have spent an enormous amount of time together over the summer, seeing each other usually 3 times a week, sometimes more. Possibly my feelings for her are a result of spending so much timing with her as they have only really developed in the last 2 months.
We flirt and always have a good time together, there have even been moments where kissing was definitely on the cards. She's even invited me to see a band with her.
However, she has said multiple times that she "doesn't date friends" due to a past experience where she lost one of her best friends when he cheated on her.
So, my question really is, do I tell her about my feelings for her knowing that we have such little time left this summer (next time I'd see her would be in the Christmas holidays) and considering she says she doesn't date friends, or should I wait for the next holidays when there is more time for a relationship to flourish, or should I say nothing at all, risk nothing, and just remain her good friend however much emotional torture it may be?
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