I found out today my wife of 12 yrs has stolen over the last 2 yrs $94,000 dollars from our retirement account by selling stock and direct depositing it into a secret checking account I found. We both work and make decent money. In fact, she makes a little more than me which is great. The account is almost empty now. I'm not a stickler with $. Would I ask what large expenditures were at times yes and did we have occasional arguments about it? Yes. Our retirement plans or college education plans for our 4, 7 and 10 yr old have been severely affected. My trust is gone. I am so sad right now. The betrayal I am feeling is suffocating.
She can't explain what she did with the money. Just saying she used it on the kids and expenses. It is way too much money and I do the bills and pay the credit cards. Those normal expenses I've seen over years did not go down. I can't fathom where so much $ went over 2 yrs. I don't think she is cheating on me. I don't think she has a drug addiction. It is all so hurtful. I don't know where we go from here. I have lost all trust. It's like I was living with another person all these yrs.
Anyone have advise? Thoughts? Anyone been through something like this?
She can't explain what she did with the money. Just saying she used it on the kids and expenses. It is way too much money and I do the bills and pay the credit cards. Those normal expenses I've seen over years did not go down. I can't fathom where so much $ went over 2 yrs. I don't think she is cheating on me. I don't think she has a drug addiction. It is all so hurtful. I don't know where we go from here. I have lost all trust. It's like I was living with another person all these yrs.
Anyone have advise? Thoughts? Anyone been through something like this?
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