These are mainly aimed at women who are perfectly OK with their other half using porn (but men please feel free). Assuming you are satisfied with your sex lives and that all porn watched is legal and above board....
Have you always been at ease with his porn use or is it something you had to come to terms with over time?
If it is something you came to terms with...what process did this take and how long until you were completely comfortable?
Do you watch it together, separately, or just him?
If he watches it alone are there any boundaries that you put in place (ie sites, genres, how often, circumstances) or do you consider it his business and leave him to it?
If you watch it alone does it improve your sex life (ie get you in the mood, gives you ideas)? Do you try and imitate things you see?
If you watch it together - how does it work? Who picks the film? Do you watch it first then have sex? Sex act whilst he watches?
If there is something in a scene that you find unsettling but your H is oblivious - do you speak up or discretely not look?
Have you ever watched porn together and felt a twinge of jealousy or inadequacy? How did you overcome that?
I am completely naive (so please be patient with me if these are dumb questions) but need to work through some 'issues' I have. It is something I need to think about for the future...Thank you in advance. 0:)
Have you always been at ease with his porn use or is it something you had to come to terms with over time?
If it is something you came to terms with...what process did this take and how long until you were completely comfortable?
Do you watch it together, separately, or just him?
If he watches it alone are there any boundaries that you put in place (ie sites, genres, how often, circumstances) or do you consider it his business and leave him to it?
If you watch it alone does it improve your sex life (ie get you in the mood, gives you ideas)? Do you try and imitate things you see?
If you watch it together - how does it work? Who picks the film? Do you watch it first then have sex? Sex act whilst he watches?
If there is something in a scene that you find unsettling but your H is oblivious - do you speak up or discretely not look?
Have you ever watched porn together and felt a twinge of jealousy or inadequacy? How did you overcome that?
I am completely naive (so please be patient with me if these are dumb questions) but need to work through some 'issues' I have. It is something I need to think about for the future...Thank you in advance. 0:)
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