So H and I don't have the best marriage for the last couple of years and often find we need breaks from each other. So H generally works out of town so for one week to a month and prior to a year and a half ago, it was hit and miss..he would finish a job and then we were never sure when the next one would be..would it be a week from now or two weeks or two months. I didn't like the uncertainty, it is not his fault of course but I find that after a while we would really start to get on each others nerves especially if there was nothing for a month or longer. Not saying that is right and something we have to work on obviously.....
So fast forward to the last year and a half he ended up subcontracting for a company in which he was gone one week home one week, etc. etc....loved it! I liked the consistency and knowing he had a set schedule was so nice.
Well this job is coming to an end...not his fault, but the company is closing...so at the end of JUly that's it he is back to how it was before...hit and miss.
He confirmed today that by end of July that was it...I find I am anxious and worried about our marriage and the state of it right now and having him hanging around home for who knows how long is somewhat upsetting. I know this not his fault but I feel really stressed anticipating the worst...I am trying to be positive but it is hard...I know I am not alone in this as other women I have talked to in the past have said that when all of a sudden their husbands are at home for an indefinite amount of time it does become somewhat stressful.
So fast forward to the last year and a half he ended up subcontracting for a company in which he was gone one week home one week, etc. etc....loved it! I liked the consistency and knowing he had a set schedule was so nice.
Well this job is coming to an end...not his fault, but the company is closing...so at the end of JUly that's it he is back to how it was before...hit and miss.
He confirmed today that by end of July that was it...I find I am anxious and worried about our marriage and the state of it right now and having him hanging around home for who knows how long is somewhat upsetting. I know this not his fault but I feel really stressed anticipating the worst...I am trying to be positive but it is hard...I know I am not alone in this as other women I have talked to in the past have said that when all of a sudden their husbands are at home for an indefinite amount of time it does become somewhat stressful.
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