My wife and I have been together for 11 years and for the last 6 or 7, she's just not been into sex. In the beginning we had a great sex life but it didn't last many years. I'm now 49 an she's 48. When it started I assumed her lack of sex drive was the menopausal issue and tried to be an understanding husband. During the first of the dry spell - read first 3 years - we had sex maybe once or twice a year. Lately its been better, more like once a month if I'm lucky but usually it's every other month or so. Even when she does give in, I can tell she isn't really into it and it kills the mood for me. I still want sex and, as she doesn't help me out, I've taken to looking at porn form time to time and taking care of myself. Now the wife is mad because I'm looking at porn. I tell her I'd rather have sex with her but she says that's beside the point. She's still mad and now accusing me of having a porn addiction. Really? Am I wrong for looking at porn and taking care of myself when the wife won't? At least I'm not out having an affair.
Put the internet to work for you.
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