I would like to hear thoughts about how to deal with sex in a marriage when there are significant problems and you have just started counseling. DH and I have only had one counseling session, and they are spaced 2 weeks apart so we don't go again until a few days from now. We haven't been intimate in about a couple of months, but now DH has been trying the last few days. I have NO desire to go there right now, as I am almost to the point of being ready to end the marriage. I am hoping that counseling will help us come back together, but at the moment I want nothing to do with intimacy. How do I approach this subject with him, and am I even being fair to ask him to respect my position right now? Our relationship problems are not sexual in nature, I just have no desire because I feel we are so far apart emotionally. Is it ok to tell him that? Thanks.
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