I posted my story after dday just about 2 years ago. I decided to try for R and stayed with my WW. It has not been easy and there have been several ups and downs.
I had a bad night a few weeks ago while we were out asking about the affair which happened 2 years ago and asking questions which were answered a million times. This got her very upset and it seemed she finally had enough of my insecurities which she caused. I admittedly have been very untrusting and won't let my guard down. It is not often but when I get triggered for some reason I respond by asking questions for any detail that may not make 100% sense and try to catch her in a lie. The next 2 weeks were pretty bad with little communication. We did talk last week and we made some progress with what we both needed to make this work.
Fast forward to this last Friday, my wife works out and teaches kickboxing classes and often on Fridays they go out for a couple drinks. I have been there for a few of the happy hours and it is mostly women or married couples except 1 guy. Of course he is on my radar and always ask when he is there.
She told me she was going for a couple drinks and she wouldn't be out late. So as midnight approaches I am getting pissed and she stops answering texts and phone calls. I have her on find my iPhone and I track her going to single guys house after the bar closes at 2:30 am. Once again not answering the phone and she even turns it off. No doubt in my mind now that something wrong is happening.
I end up pulling up the phone bill and see they have had conversations over the last 2 weeks about 4 times.
I debated waking the kids up and taking a ride over there but instead called the single guy.... He picked up and I told him to tell my wife to get home. He asked who this was and I simply hung up.
About 10 minutes later he drops her off and wanted to explain that nothing was going on, I pushed him out of my house before he could really talk.
I will post about her reaction and further details later
I had a bad night a few weeks ago while we were out asking about the affair which happened 2 years ago and asking questions which were answered a million times. This got her very upset and it seemed she finally had enough of my insecurities which she caused. I admittedly have been very untrusting and won't let my guard down. It is not often but when I get triggered for some reason I respond by asking questions for any detail that may not make 100% sense and try to catch her in a lie. The next 2 weeks were pretty bad with little communication. We did talk last week and we made some progress with what we both needed to make this work.
Fast forward to this last Friday, my wife works out and teaches kickboxing classes and often on Fridays they go out for a couple drinks. I have been there for a few of the happy hours and it is mostly women or married couples except 1 guy. Of course he is on my radar and always ask when he is there.
She told me she was going for a couple drinks and she wouldn't be out late. So as midnight approaches I am getting pissed and she stops answering texts and phone calls. I have her on find my iPhone and I track her going to single guys house after the bar closes at 2:30 am. Once again not answering the phone and she even turns it off. No doubt in my mind now that something wrong is happening.
I end up pulling up the phone bill and see they have had conversations over the last 2 weeks about 4 times.
I debated waking the kids up and taking a ride over there but instead called the single guy.... He picked up and I told him to tell my wife to get home. He asked who this was and I simply hung up.
About 10 minutes later he drops her off and wanted to explain that nothing was going on, I pushed him out of my house before he could really talk.
I will post about her reaction and further details later
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