Ok, long story short. I have fallen out with a "friend" (who stabbed me in the back over this girl that wont accept this) (guy has no morals, or any idea what a bro code is - has previous for stealing his best mates gf - nice) anywho this past weekend I get asked by a third party if I was going to this guys meal. - I say - Id rather cut my dick off.
She gets wind of this and is very pissed off with me - she's all like - I cant believe you said that and thought better of you.
Then I go and explain myself and basically say Im not going to play happy families and spend time around someone I do not like.
She goes - You honestly hate him that much?
Then I wait a day and umm and ahhh about sending a text which basically exposed him for the sneaky **** that he is and give my reasons as to why I will not go out with the group if he is there. (Bearing in mind she is the only one who still (well not anymore I guess) invites me out and actively chases me to go out with the group (when she full well knows the answer) -
THen I get a spaced out reply - she is proper pissed off - and says
"You've lost some respect from me, You or any other guy for that matter have the right to say who I can and can't talk to and how I talk. No "guy code" was broken because you never had Me... The ****ing guy code is a loaf of **** it's like no boy has any respect for women it's disgusting"
WHAT?!?! All I said was Im not going out because the guy was a prick and flirted in front of me with her when he full well knew how I felt.
Then I tell her that its nothing to do with owning women or anythign like that and how much I hate it when guys think they own women, Ive never once stopped her from talking to anyone nor have i had a problem with how she talks to them and she can talk to whoever she likes. Its him I have the problem with and that its not always about her. (Twice now she's said the "you dont own me" when arguing)
But why cant she accept my wishes when I say, I do NOT want to go out with them if he is there. She cant seem reason in that my reasons for not wanting to. Why it has to affect the rest of the group if I dislike this guy. I despise the guy. Want nothing to do with him so why would I go and pretend to be happy around him when i dont want to even be there wiht him.
Why is she getting so angry, when I have done nothing wrong. Then she goes and writes online "People will notice the change in your attitude towards them but wont notice their behaviour that made you change" --- Blatently aimed at me considering we were arguing the night before.
Why is she behaving this way!? Why she so angry?! and Why wont she accept that wont spend time with the group if he is there??
I think she misses me in all honesty, but this, this is pissing me off. Why is she so angry!! :( :mad:
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