Hi everyone.. i have reached my wits end and despeartely need an objective advice ..
Been married for three years and been living apart from hubby,though he visits. i am successfully making my marks in the banking industry hence enjoying it here and have not depended on hubby financially since we married, because he had nt a steady job or maybe he feels i am self sufficient. Our baby made her debut february 2014 and v got my permanent residency card and SSN in the states.
its time to resign and go join him ,but i really am SCARED and just DONT want to right now because i feel being a stay home mum and depending on him solely will cause financial and relationship rift between us given that he earns withinn the ambits of California minimum wage. will that pay rent, bills,put food on our table, school fees,creche for our baby etc??
Got plans of doing a masters but still in the process.. have asked hubby to give some more time so we both save up,since the pressure will be on him,but he is adamant and approaches this issue emotionally(i need my baby to grow with me) Please what do i do? i want to insist on staying back for a year longer but not sure on how to convince him. Am i right on my decision ? please let me know
Been married for three years and been living apart from hubby,though he visits. i am successfully making my marks in the banking industry hence enjoying it here and have not depended on hubby financially since we married, because he had nt a steady job or maybe he feels i am self sufficient. Our baby made her debut february 2014 and v got my permanent residency card and SSN in the states.
its time to resign and go join him ,but i really am SCARED and just DONT want to right now because i feel being a stay home mum and depending on him solely will cause financial and relationship rift between us given that he earns withinn the ambits of California minimum wage. will that pay rent, bills,put food on our table, school fees,creche for our baby etc??
Got plans of doing a masters but still in the process.. have asked hubby to give some more time so we both save up,since the pressure will be on him,but he is adamant and approaches this issue emotionally(i need my baby to grow with me) Please what do i do? i want to insist on staying back for a year longer but not sure on how to convince him. Am i right on my decision ? please let me know
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